Exceptional Accomplishment
Book Excerpt - Snowden McFall page 129-130
"Attention Achievers: Beware of Burnout
"There is a fire inside you that ignites and burns brightly
when you do what you love and you share that joy with others.
As you accomplish more and more, living the life of your dreams,
your contagious enthusiasm spreads from person to person. When
you're Fired Up!, you can overcome any obstacle and succeed in
ways that you never before thought possible. When you're Fired
Up!, you have incredible energy and vitality, and you can continue
to accomplish great things.
But every once in a while, that fire starts to flicker and die,
and what douses the flame is often burnout. All "doers"
face the potential of burnout: overcommitting, doing too much,
and losing your drive and energy. If you're Fired Up! about life
and accomplish much on a regular basis, it's
surprisingly easy for burnout to occur. It often starts out as
a prolonged period of stress. Or it
happens something like this.
You're working hard, balancing your family and your community
obligations, and you're happy about your life. Because of the
adage, "give a busy person something to do and it will get
done," you are asked to take on another big responsibility.
It might mean a raise or major growth for your company, so you
say "yes." For a while, everything is fine. You're
putting in more hours at work and getting less sleep, but you
can handle it. Your fire is still stoked, although it begins
to burn from both ends. And then your father is diagnosed with
Alzheimers. Emotionally distressed and guilt-ridden, you spend
more time and money taking care of your father and less time
taking care of yourself. Pretty soon, you're rushing around from
place to place, feeling harried, worried about what you may have
forgotten to do, and you fall into bed completely exhausted.
You're eating poorly, just to have fuel in your body, snapping
at loved ones and co-workers, dreading the next meeting. Your
creativity and resourcefulness have vanished and you have trouble
getting up in the morning. You wonder how long you can go on
like this. Your fire went out a long time ago, and you have no
idea how to reignite the flame. This is the beginning of burnout.
It's an interesting phenomenon. Burnout rarely happens to
procrastinators; it happens to doers. Doers live with a fair
amount of stress anyway. Good stress occurs when we get excited
about a new challenge. Bad stress occurs when a crisis or trauma
takes place. Either way, it has a big impact on the central nervous
system. Those of us who are already substantial achievers are
the ones at the greatest risk. It takes very little to upset
that delicate balance of easily juggling lots of different balls.
All too quickly, added demands and pressure can force you into
overload. "
© 2000, Snowden McFall, Exceptional Accomplishment
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